café c(rush).
Making real-life connections normal again
Dating works better in person.
Five pre-matched dates.
Fifteen minutes each.
Hosted in Amsterdam's cosiest cafés. No endless chatting, no wasted evenings, just a fun night out making real connections.
We need your help!
We started café c(rush) because we felt modern dating had become too exhausting and impersonal. Endless swiping, awkward dates, and spending your only free evening of the week, realising after 5 minutes there’s no connection.
So we thought: What if meeting new people could actually be fun again?
That’s why we created café c(rush): a cosy evening where you meet 5 pre-matched people in real life — no pressure, no endless chatting beforehand, just genuine connection. And honestly, the response has been amazing. Many people told us afterwards: “I thought it would feel awkward, but it actually felt so natural.”
Now we want to grow.
At the moment, we only organise one event per month, and we often have to disappoint people because tickets sell out quickly.
That’s why we’re participating in the “Boost je Buurt” campaign, where we can win up to €7000 to expand café c(rush):
💛 more events
💛 more age groups
💛 more cities
💛 more real-life connection
But we can’t do it without your help!.
Voting is open from June 1st until June 21st, and every vote truly makes a difference.
Thank you so much for supporting our dream of bringing more connection and love into the world.
With love,
Team Café Crush 💛
About café c(rush).
café c(rush) was created to make dating feel human again.
Dating has become difficult and often impersonal.
We all know the feeling: you spend hours swiping, finally get a match, and arrange a date. You get dressed up, look forward to a fun evening, and quietly hope there might be a real connection. But within five minutes, you already know. This isn't it.
Yet you're still there, trying to make the best of it, while deep down you know you would rather have spent your evening doing something else. Your entire Thursday night is gone — maybe your only free evening of the week — and in hindsight, you wish you had spent it with friends instead.
That's when we started thinking:
What if there were a way for people to meet new potential partners more efficiently, without the disappointment of a failed date?
That's why we started café c(rush): a relaxed and enjoyable evening with pre-matched dates.
Without putting in any effort yourself, you'll meet five people who have already been matched with you.
You decide who you'd like to go on a longer, official date with afterwards.
An enjoyable evening, the possibility of finding love, and no disappointment if one person turns out not to be the right match.
Some participants initially told us they were worried the experience would feel forced. But after the event, we heard the exact opposite: they were genuinely enthusiastic, felt the conversations flowed naturally, and said they would recommend it to anyone.
Our events
café c(rush) x Waterkant
SOON ONLINE:
16th of July
PRIDE EDITION!
café c(rush) x Café Helmers
YES - there’s a next edition coming!
We’re super excited to announce that the next event will take place at the lovely Café Helmers.
Expect new fases, great conversations, good vibes, and maybe a nice little flirt..
€22,50 incl. a sparkling wine
café c(rush) x Café Vlaming
We’ve had a taste of it.. warmer days, sunshine on our faces, and flowers starting to bloom again. Spring is in the air - so let’s grow a little love too.
Our first Spring Edition is coming up, and this time we’re meeting at the lovely Café Vlaming. With it’s cosy interior and sunny terrace, it’s the perfect spot to meet your next crush!
€22,50 incl. a sparkling wine
How it works
1
Sign up through the button for the event you would like to join. Make sure to fill in the form that pops up so that we have your information and know who we could set you up with!
2
About two weeks before the event, we close the sign-ups and start matching! This takes up some time, so please keep the date free!
3
One week before the event (the latest), you will get an update on whether we found matches for you. This e-mail includes a payment link. Note: everybody gets an email - invited or not! Please check your spam!
4
Confirm your spot by paying within 3 days - only then is your participation secured!
5
Join the event and go on 5 15-minute dates!
6
Its a match! We will email your mutual matches shortly after the event! Note: everybody gets an email, matches or not!
7
Tell us: who would you like to see again?
NOTE
We make real, personal matches. If you don’t show up, someone misses a date. Please sign up only if you intend to come!
All over Amsterdam
Every edition, café c(rush) takes over a different café, bar, gallery, cinema - anywhere where we can host our community! We’ve had 19 editions thus far and are always on the lookout for our next spot.
Café de Toog
Lab111
Café Thijssen
Café de Doffer
Murmur
HVIA
Café Kosmos
Bar Lely
Boat Editie
Café de Muurbloem
Bar Bario
The51
Café Dapper
NEMO (Museumnacht 2025)
No Man's Art Bar
Waterkant
Vessel
Theater de Richel
ARCA
Café Vlaming
Café Helmers
Gallery
Hosting café c(rush).
Host someone’s story
The best café c(rush) evenings turn into stories people tell their friends the next day: who they met, what happened, and where it all took place. Your café becomes the setting for those memories, while also gaining visibility through our events and social media.
Want to host a café c(rush) evening? We'd love to hear from you. Tell us a bit about your space and we'll be in touch.
Sponsoring café c(rush).
At every café c(rush) event, we love giving our daters something small and memorable to take with them — especially something that makes a second date even more fun.
For every event, we’re looking for new collaborations and creative sponsors who want to be part of bringing people together in real life.
So — are you a business owner, café, brand, entrepreneur, or someone with a fun idea?
Would you love to put your brand in front of a large group of young, social, and enthusiastic people? Or do you simply love the idea of supporting new connections and blossoming love stories?
We’d love to hear from you!
Brouwerij ’t IJ
Chateau Amsterdam
Dik & Schil
Frank Seltzer
Goodbeans
Koeck ende Koeck
MeGusta Intimates
Salmari
Stooker Specialty Coffee
Surprose
The Cottage
Westerperk
YAYA Kombucha
Brands that went before you
Our Team
Marieke Simon
Elisa Leeser
Carli van Diemen
Co-founderCo-founderAs a co-founder, I focus on building relationships with cafés, managing sponsorships, and developing collaborations. I am driven to bring people together through thoughtfully curated experiences that maximise the likelihood of real connections and matches.
Co-founder focused on community building, visual design, social media, and collaborations with cafés. I care about creating warm, safe and welcoming spaces where people feel comfortable, connected, and leave with confidence.
MatchmakerAs a matchmaker, Carli gained valuable experience working at First Dates, where she developed a strong intuition for creating successful matches. Missing the joy of connecting people and watching love unfold, she now brings that passion to Café Crush as a matchmaker.



